>>516284068The discrepancy between Kind Mita's popularity and Cappie's is interesting and also somewhat hilarious. It highlights the difference between what men say they want vs. what they actually want.
I'm being reductive here; Mitas are largely hyperfeminine gigastacies, but Kind Mita is the type of girl that is socially acceptable to simp over. If women spent their whole lives listening to what men 'say' they want in a woman, they'd end up being like Kind Mita, or assume they should be (the peaceful ver. of Crazy Mita as well). They'd wear their hair long and messy, fold their arms, and pretend to be your mother. They'd make all the plans, call all the shots, cook all of your meals, and you should be grateful just to be around them.
Cappie is the one who is 'actually' the male fantasy. She is both sincere and blissfully naive. She is noncombative and praises you for winning her games and finding bugs around the house. You call the shots, she follows. You make the plans, and you tell her what to do, and she happily obeys without so much as the desire to argue. Her single protest is that you spend time with her and don't ignore her for long periods of time, and it's a pretty fair request. This is what it means to be feminine and it's what makes the interaction at her door so much different than the wardrobe in the beginning. Cappie earns our trust extremely quickly because she's not constantly trying to outsmart or control the player and you can always assume she is being sincere because of her aforementioned stupidity. This is actually very attractive behavior in a woman.
I can tell most female streamers realize it themselves and promptly leave her behind, which never fails to amuse me. They feel so dirty after spending 3 minutes with her that they want it to end. They took a deep dive into male attraction that both previous Mitas did not prepare them to see. Men want one thing and it. Is. Fucking. Disgusting. The bitter truthpill.
