>>1243See, I've never experienced climates like that and would love to. It all sounds gorgeous, so the west is probably my the top place I want to visit. If you visit the east, I don't recommend any northeast cities. They are some of the most spiteful and rude people I've seen in my life. Not all of them are, of course, but it seems to be a prevalent attitude. You should visit North Carolina, maybe even Asheville.
You're right. Most issues aren't black and white like that. Though I wouldn't mind helping someone if they asked and were in need.
Oh, damn. That's a rough situation... Hmm... Do you take donations? I wouldn't sharing if it helps you out. Especially if you're at risk for not having food.